Scott Gronholz
There are often seasons in life when something seems to no longer fit or work. A relationship shifts, grief lingers, or anxiety begins to shape our days in ways we don't fully understand. Strangely, life looks fine or normal from the outside, and yet we find ourselves feeling disturbingly distant from it. When this happens, it can be tempting for some to search for quick answers or explanations. More often, I think what we need first is someone to sit in the confusion with us.
Psychodynamic therapy begins with the belief that our lives are often more meaningful and surprising than they first appear. Instead of rushing to solve problems or eliminate difficult feelings, I hope to create a space where we can become curious about them together. Sometimes the smallest moments of surprise, humor, or misunderstanding become the doorway to something useful or important. Together we'll pay attention to patterns, relationships, and stories that have shaped your life while remaining open to the possibility that they are not the only stories available.
I'm less interested in helping people become whole or complete than in integrating parts of themselves that may have been overlooked, hidden, or pushed aside. Whether you're navigating anxiety, depression, grief, relationship difficulties, questions of identity, or simply a feeling that life has become smaller than it once was, therapy can offer an opportunity to pause, wonder, and begin to listen differently. My hope is not that you leave therapy with all the answers, but with new capacities for feeling connected to yourself and your own experience.
I believe we come to know ourselves in relationship with people throughout our lives and, for some, through the unexpected relationship that develops in therapy itself. My hope is that our work together becomes a place where there is enough room for curiosity, honesty, and playfulness to return, allowing something new to emerge at its own pace.